Assisting Workshop
Thursday, April 1st, 2010Nicole Clark led the second workshop this past Sunday at Back Bay Yoga, focused on the power of touch. Nicole is a powerful Forrest teacher as well as touch therapist, trained in craniosacral therapy among other modalities. She is also a gorgeous Brooklyn girl. This manifests in stick straight black hair, dark lipstick & a fabulous Attitude with a capital A.
Nicole’s bio is listed here: http://www.backbayyoga.com/bodywork.html Just scroll down to the second half of the page, under Christine Raffa’s.
Having healthy touch in your life is pretty darn important. A yoga class is one place to find that, hopefully. I’ve been in some where I cringed anytime I thought the teacher was about to assist/adjust/touch me, usually because they were untrained or incompetent. In most classes, when the teacher walks by, I’m begging internally like a puppy — “Pick me! Pick me! Pick MEEE!!!” That’s the power of touch in action.
Nicole started the workshop with a very gentle, trance-inducing yoga session done mostly on our backs. Everyone was a bit stoned by it, which was exactly the result desired. She paired us up, & had us walk around our partner, seeing them, then laying hands on them to work at the issue that showed up. This scenario repeated itself a number of times with different partners, going into deeper & deeper stuff. The last pairing worked Savasana adjustments, especially on the feet, shoulders & neck.
It was an amazing way to work. And normally I am VERY pessimistic on random partner assignment. But in this case I know the people at the studio, many of the people in the workshop, knew they were led by a very competent teacher. AND. Most important. Said teacher emphasized also training oneself & one’s students to communicate during touch. How does X feel? Ask. Get the response. Then adjust accordingly. Elicit meaningful feedback by making a safe space.
My first partner got into my low back because he saw quite clearly there was still very little breath moving in there, & when he disengaged I swear I felt like he was sucking out poison by making a vacuum with his hands. Bizarre, intriguing, cool. Another partner worked away at a knot in my shoulder like a persistent critter digging into hard ground. Better work than I’ve received at many massage therapy sessions.
Nicole emphasized again & again how criticial it is that in yoga class touch be MEANINGFUL — which makes the teacher responsible for slowing down enough while giving an adjustment to really see, get in there, connect slowly, disengage slowly. Slow slow slow. Nothing callous, fast, unseeing, automatic or abrupt. Because people will know, tense up & get little benefit from it. Another thing I found intriguing was Nicole’s key question coming into a class — “who’s here?” — and feeling for the individuals in the room.
Both Nicole & Christine said several times how they never get bored after years of teaching & bodywork, because they see each person who walks into the room as a puzzle, as someone magical & interesting.
My inner 12 year old must have the last word. Classic line of the session –”you can’t go too deep, only too fast.”
True, but… he he.
